So i see that i haven't really said anything really relevant or important in this blog of mine in quite some time. I've really actually been quite busy with school work and i guess you could call it life in general. But with being busy of course also comes having many things to think about and comtemplate.
Ever wonder why we meet the people that we do and live the life that we do? Well....to be honest, i think that we meet them for a reason. We ourselves may not know why we met them and why they are in our lives, but one thing is for sure...the people in our lives are there for a reason. These people each in their own way leave a mark in your life. Some leave a big mark, while others leave a small one. But everyone that we meet, leaves something behind in us. This in turn has the ability to change us or to make us forever remain the same.
There are some people that will never change, while there are others that do change a great deal. I've often wondered why sometimes that there is this change. Most of the time it's due to growing up...and sometimes it's for the denial of growing up. Or it can be because of the lessons learned and the mistakes and successes that were done.
I don't blame anyone or anything that has happened because the people that i meet and the people that leave marks in my life did so for reasons that i alone cannot know the reason why. There are people that will forever until eternity is no more remain your closest friends and then there are some people whom you preceive to be a friend until eternity is no more only to realize that it was a childish and wishful thinking. People change i suppose. And we as humans can only do so much. Though we may not know the reasons why a person will change so much...we can only accept it as a fact and hope that they are happy.
A life revolves around the relationships that we make and the interactions among people that we do. A person could live their whole life working and going home and sleeping and eating...and etc but what kind of life is that? One where there are no relationships and no contact....it becomes a lonely life with no joy and happiness. You could have all the money in the world and have whatever you want, but the one thing that you can't buy is the joy and happiness that a family and friends can bring into your life.
Many people take for granted the people that are around them, but i have learned that you should never ever take anyone for granted in your life. Learn to cherish the people that are in it and learn to always let them know just how much you care. Sure people change, and sure people may come and go, but there are always people who forever until eternity is no more that will never go away and will always stand by you no matter what.
I know that i can't change a person. But i do know that i can stand by them regardless of what they are going through. Don't say that i'm not strong enough and that i need to be protected because as a friend until eternity is no more, let me be standing right there beside you. Because there is no where else that i would rather be ^_^
The road and journey through life is long and at times can be hard, but it's so much more better when you have someone to walk that path with. Don't leave me behind in a place that you think is safe and go on ahead to the crossroad, because no matter which direction you choose, i will always be right there beside you.
I hope that everyone has had a great reading week and a wonderful chinese new year. May this new year bring you all much happiness and many luck.
