Anybody ever watch or read Fruits Basket before? Well...i've done both. And i've got to say that it is my all time favorite series. I don't know what it is, but once i started, i could not stop and i've totally fallen in love with this series ^_^

What is a group? Why is it that it seems like everyone has a group or someone to belong to? What is the feeling of being left out like? Anyone can understand that feeling of being left out of a group. It isn't a nice feeling to be left out of something that so obviously is close. A person always wants to belong to a group. Belonging to a group makes you feel like your needed and that people want you in their lives. Belonging to something or to someone is something that everyone works hard to find.

But sometimes, when you think you've found someone or a group to belong to and something happens that makes it all fall apart...you feel very sad. Because now you are left all alone. Does you remember in elementary school when you had a big huge group of friends and all day long you guys just all hung out with each other? and then one day....just out of the blue, someone tells the whole group to not talk or play with you anymore? You feel very left out and lonely don't you? This is where forgiveness comes in. When one person, in that whole entire big group steps out and says want to play together? You forgive and forget that that person was ever a part of the group that all of a sudden decided to not talk to you anymore.

Forgiveness is the one thing that can release a person from all the anger and all the hurt that has been kept inside of them. Forgiveness helps us to create a new beginning and to start a new relationship. Forgiveness is what we all need to practice more often so that we can all not linger on the past and hold grudges.

I know of so many people that have grudges. And sometimes, i just wish that everything didn't get to the extent that people are no longer talking or no longer even able to stand together in the same room. If everyone forgave and forgot and let the past be the past...then maybe friends can and might always and forever be friends.

But...lately...with the way i'm seeing things and the way things are going around me....forgiveness might be a hard thing for everyone to do. But what we all have to realize is that with time...things should work themselves out...because if you think about it....anything given some time will either feel like the past or feel like it was dumb back then and then you can laugh it off or think oh how embarrassing. Right? i really don't know what i'm talking about anymore....forgiveness was something that someone sent me and it's just been on my mind.

i guess forgiving someone is also like letting go. They both go together. So please...try to forgive and let go and let us all move on towards the future.

I forgive everything that you've done to me and everything that you've said to me. I've already left the past as the past. Now it is only memories. Now what i want most is that we can always and forever remain close until eternity is no more. I miss you.

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A total sweetheart, you always have a lot of love to give out.Your heart is open to where ever love takes you! Your ideal Valentine's Day date: a surprise romantic evening that you've planned out Your flirting style: lots of listening and talking What turns you off: fighting and conflict Why you're hot: you're fearless about falling in love

If you love someone, you'd protect them, right? ...I want to protect you Young-jae.
Quote by: Han Ji-eun in Fullhouse

It's possible she wouldn't know how lovely she is. I love this woman. I wish to protect her from the hurt, from the pain. To take care of her always...
Quote by: Lee Young-jae in Fullhouse

Being protected and protecting someone is something that has often crossed my mind. Everyone has a wall to them that they keep up around themselves. Some people's walls are harder to get into than other's. But something that we all must realize is that everyone needs someone. Whether it be a best friend, a family member or a higher being.

Parents protect us when we are young. But as we grow older, we begin to hate their protection and want to explore on our own. From this exploration, we make mistakes. We fall down, and we look to our parents to pick us up, but they do not. As the chinese saying goes "自己跌到自己爬". If you fall down by yourself, climb back up by yourself. That is the only way that you can learn from your mistakes. Protection for someone can only go to a certain extent. Someone can't always and forever be there for you. There comes a time when you have to learn to stand on your own two feet.

But what about in Fullhouse? In Fullhouse, Han Ji-eun loves Young-jae. And like she says, if you love someone you will want to protect them. Allowing someone to protect you isn't a sign of weakness. Depending on someone isn't a sign of weakness. It just means that there is someone out there who cares enough about you to fall and climb back up with you. Sometimes, you just have to let yourself be protected. Stop trying to push people away because you are afraid that allowing them into your wall will only hurt them and hurt you.

Young-jae says that he wants to forever protect Han Ji-eun from all things that will cause her unhappiness. Sometimes the feeling of being protected by someone is a wonderful feeling. Just to know that someone out there cares about you enough to want to sacrifice themselves just to make you happy can cause a person to melt. It makes you happy to know that you are being watched over and that someone wishes you happiness for always. It also gives you the sense that you aren't alone.

To protect someone and to be protected by someone is something that everyone should consider. Without protection from others, we are left vulnerable and lonely. We feel as if everyone else is loved but we are not. But in reality, noone is ever left without someone to protect and someone to protect them. If you actaully take the time to really think about it, you can be just like Young-jae and Han Ji-eun. There are things out there in the world that are worth living for and protecting no matter the cost. So don't take life for granted. Because someone will be really sad if they find out that the one person that they wanted to protect gave up. And the same goes for those of you who are being protected, don't push them away, instead learn to accept it.

Saying goodbye and letting go may just be two of the hardest things that a person will ever have to do. Sometimes staying in the past can be hurtful and can sometimes even drive you crazy. I understand that hanging onto the past means still having hope that one day things can go back to the way they were before. But sometimes, it's just time to let go and say goodbye no matter how hard it may be.

Saying goodbye is hard because you feel as if once you say goodbye, then everything will be forever lost. But sometimes, saying goodbye means saying hello to a new beginning that is much more better. Saying goodbye is a part of healing what was once broken. If goodbye is never said and you never let go of the past, then in the future and the present there will forever be a wall that may never be able to come down. Letting go of the past does not mean to let go of it forever. You can still remember it for always, but do not hang on to it as if it is your life line.

The past is the past. Remember that it is alright to dream of a new beginning for something old. But in order for the dream to become reality, saying goodbye to the past and learning to let go of the past is what must first be done. Whole new possibilities are opened up once you realize that the past is in the past and it's time to move on. Life has so much more to offer and so much beautiful things to see. Don't be tied to the past. Learn to let go and say goodbye.

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